The problem with guys who try cougar dating on sites similar to this one is that they look at it as primarily a biological thing. I’m not saying that this is necessarily bad. Of course, biology drives most human behavior. We might think that were rational and logical human beings. We think we might even allow ourselves to think that we are completely logical to the extent that everything can be justified and explained in rational terms. Well, don’t fool yourself.

According to a recent research study, most decisions are actually made based on emotions. We really can’t put our fingers on it but if we catch the right emotions regarding a particular issue, we end up deciding a certain way again and again. It’s only when people are asked to explain their decisions that they grasp at some sort of objective sounding or reasonable sounding explanation. Don’t let the bullshit fool you.

Most people make emotional decisions. It’s very important to understand this, because with cougar dating, it’s really all about emotions. If you are able to make sense of this then you can use it to your advantage, the problem is most guys think that cougar dating is simply a rational set of efforts to fulfill biological drives. Of course, the most common biological drives involve eating, drinking, going to the bathroom, seeking shelter, that kind of thing.